Today would have been my grandpa's 78th birthday, but instead, he was buried this morning. My heart is heavy today as I remember him and prepare to join other family and friends at a memorial to honor him this weekend.
It's hard for me to sum up my grandfather's life, and I certainly cannot do it justice by trying. I will remember many sweet things about his being a part of my childhood.
He lovingly called me 'stink pot' for many years when I was little.
He would say 'hello beautiful' every time he saw me, as well as his wife (although grandma also got 'hello lover' which I always thought was sweet), daughter, cousins, and many other women, but it always made me feel special.
He would always boast about making really good fried eggs. He loved them with cayenne pepper.
He would talk anyone's ear off about anything, especially football, Stanford, real estate, or sports.
He absolutely loved invention and innovation. He would always talk about how cool the latest technology was and how the way to 'make it' in the world was to invent the next big thing. "You know...what you gotta do is...."
I have many other memories like this too, and I will think about them fondly as life reminds me of him. But what strikes me about him was how much he loved his family and friends. I said this on Facebook, but i think it sums up an important part of who he was. My grandpa Carlos has always been one of my number one fans. Always proud of me and cheering me on. He loved his family, friends, kids, grandkids, and great grandkids so much. I'm so grateful for how he has supported me and my family over the years. So glad my girls had a chance to meet him and bask in his pride as well.
And here are some more recent ones.
May 2005, at my MA Graduation
August 2005, Giving at toast at he and my grandma's 50th Wedding Anniversary Party
January 2007, Stanford Reunion
September 2007, Our Wedding
June 2010, celebrating Wes' MS Graduation
August 2012, with his two great granddaughters
May 2013, with family after Kate's baby dedicaton
Love you and miss you grandpa!






